One day my youngest son and I were walking down the road. My son said to me" Mommy I don't like this" I said to him , "Son what don't you like ?" He said to me the cold "! I said son it is not cold" In fact it was a really nice warm day. My son said " no mommy not the weather but this cold world". I decided to see exactly what he was talking about so I asked more questions. My son said "Mommy I don't like this cold world, people are so quick to give you the cold shoulder. " I said son you just have to become bolder and not colder as you see the world!
When you’re in the thick of life — overwhelmed, uncertain, frustrated — it's easy to feel lost. You’re doing the work, showing up, pushing through the struggle… and yet, it feels like nothing’s changing. But here’s the truth: You can’t see the picture when you’re in the frame. You’re too close to your own process to always understand it. Too deep in the battle to realize the breakthrough is already in motion. Just because you can’t see it doesn’t mean it’s not happening. Sometimes, what feels like failure is just foundation. What feels like delay is divine positioning. You are evolving, building, growing — but growth doesn’t always look like progress. It often looks like pressure. This blog is your reminder to trust the process , even when you don’t understand it. Let’s get into how to zoom out, realign, and move forward with power. 1. Zoom Out: Perspective Changes Everything When you're in the frame, all you see are the brushstrokes — the mess, the mistakes, the unfi...